Guidelines for christian dating relationships
It is easy to see why there is a movement of parents to replace traditional dating with a formal courtship between a young man and woman.
Teens need to be taught that the ultimate purpose of dating or courting is to find someone to marry.They need to be very choosy about whom they spend time with in light of that definition.Help them write down the qualities they want to look for in the person they marry. That list then becomes the criteria by which all potential dates are measured.Whom they should date As a starting point, we believe our teens should develop friendships with and eventually date only other Christians (2 Corinthians -16).Why go out with someone who does not have your values?Bill smiled and probed: “You know, your mom and I have been talking about you and all those boys who call on the phone.” Julie squirmed uncomfortably in her seat. Instead, we are encouraging our girls who are still home to focus on the friendship side of their relationships with boys.
Realizing now where this conversation was headed, she rolled her eyes. When our girls do spend time with a boy, it’s in a group, not one on one.
And it was a good opportunity for them to practice their manners and learn how to behave in formal clothes. A teenager going on a first date at 17 is certainly not the norm in our culture.
But many experts agree that early dating is not a good idea.
Also, parents need to evaluate the vitality of the Christian walk of the person who may date one of their children.
Specifically, is this young man or young woman a Christian?
He smiled as he thought about all those after-school trips over the last few years: dance classes, piano practices, the unending cycle of softball games and tournaments.