Dating a person with bpd
He will be more old school and pick the places to go on your dates, maybe even order the drinks, food and etc.
Well I come from a family of engineers, my mother a civil engineer and brother a civil and mechanical engineer, I spent 13 years living in Silicon Valley the mecha of engineers working in the robotics, software, telecom and nanotech space surrounded to engineers and had to understand how they think so I can market products to them and in 2012 married a software engineer.It doesn’t matter what kind of blue from the color blue of electrostatic mats in engineering labs to blue shirts, to them there is a comfort in the color blue.Also, most engineers are in some fashion color blind and blue is the most dominate color.Some engineering wardrobes are full of free shirts, jackets and hats with company logos of companies they have worked or vendors gave them as a gift.Unless they are a sales engineer most won’t own a suit and if they do it is very outdated and they will not feel comfortable wearing it so don’t push them too. It doesn’t matter which engineering segment they work in my experience most all engineers like sci-fi, video games, history, and the color blue.When coming up with date ideas avoid the suit and tie events and hit the science museums, a trendy gastropub or brewery, have a sci-fi movie night, go to a comedy club, get out play video games and do his favorite sport or hit a laid back restaurant or sports bar.
When it comes to gifts for an engineer you can always win by finding out what was their favorite sci-fi movie, video game, tv show as a kid and find either: Now when dating them, depending on the type for example if you find one that is more dominate.
There is all types of engineers out there and each of them can vary in personalities. You really don’t need to over think things with them, they are very honest and to the point.
But like with any man they have their needs as do women.
People with personality disorders tend to exhibit problems with impulse control.
These problems can manifest as either over-controlled or under-controlled impulses.
Here, too, we can think of impulse regulation along a continuum ranging from over-control to under-control, with healthy personalities falling somewhere in the middle between these two extreme poles.